Relationship Counselling in Southend-On-Sea, Essex

Improve your relationship with a specialist who achieves great results

Do you feel in your gut that you are with the right person, but you are still unable to find that happiness you’ve been looking for together? The two most important ingredients in a relationship are the two of you, but no matter how perfect you are for each other, it takes more than a perfect match to be happy.

There are many influences that can add positivity to the relationship or break it if you are not aware of what those are or how to deal with them. Such influences, might include, but are not limited to:

Relationship counselling in Southend-On-Sea
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Different upbringings, if your core beliefs differ, learning to compromise can be challenging.

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Low self esteem affects issues such as ‘jealousy’ or ‘neediness’, which can be suffocating for you or your partner.

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Pressures of work and finances can have a massive impact on any relationship. It’s all about finding that balance, usually harder than it sounds.

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Children, as wonderful as they are, are also a big responsibility and in some situations that responsibility can be a tipping point.

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Previous relationships still getting in the way?

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Parents often wield a lot of influence on your relationships, good and bad, especially in earlier years of marriage. A parent with narcissistic or domineering tendencies can cause severe disruption.

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Sex or lack of sex in a marriage is often a deal breaker as it is one of our most fundamental instinctual needs. Differences in beliefs about sex and what is and is not acceptable can again add tension to any relationship.

Of course, you may be in a relationship that is simply not right for you. Maybe you stay in the relationship due to fear, guilt, a sense of responsibility or just apathy. In these instances it is vital to get the help you need to work through these issues, enabling you to make the best decisions for YOU, with a clear head.

Life is too short to remain unhappy, so if you want to create positive change in your relationships and your life, do something about it. Remember, the most important relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. You have to learn to like and love who you are before you can make the most of other relationships.

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